Tonight I will be going to my 1st Munch

Tonight I will be heading out to attend my 1st munch. For those of you unfamiliar with the word, a 'munch' is a term used in Fetish communities to mean a get together/social gathering.

Munches are completely different from a fetish party or fetish event. There is no fetish play at a munch and those attending are asked to wear regular street clothes. Munches are often held in public places; restaurants, bars and cafes.

I have heard both good and bad things about munches. Some have reported a great sense of happiness to be able to join and chat with pleasant like-minded individuals. I have also heard that some of these gatherings are filled with very strange and creepy people.

It is very common in the BDSM community for kinksters to having casual play partners. Therefore munches are sometimes a way for fetish players to meet future play partners. It is for this very reason that I have avoided going to munches in the past.

My avoidance of causal play partners has not changed. My decision to attend this munch is a way for me to better understand the psychology and needs of male submissives. By understanding and interacting with more lifestyle sub males I will be able to better understand the root of their fetishes. This understanding will in turn assist me to become a better Pro Domme.

The most fascinating aspect of kink and BDSM for me is the psychology of fetishes, specifically when it relates to childhood and the nurture vs. nature argument.

These munches will allow me to discuss and get first hand anecdotal accounts from men on the origin of their fetishes.

Whether the experience tonight is a positive or negative one, the evening promises to at least be interesting. I highly doubt there would be a moment of boredom in a room full of kinksters.

I will post full details of tonight's event sometime tomorrow.

Until then,
~ Madison